Most people think of Paris when France is brought up…
But it doesn’t quite represent the rest of the country.
Don’t get me wrong—Paris is magical… it’s the pride of France…
However, the City of Light has grown into a global city hosting unequalled masses of tourists and expats.
After all, when a city of a couple million people welcomes up to 40 million tourists each year, it’s hard not to adapt…
Many stores are open on Sundays… businesspeople hurry about with coffee on the go… and the parks are full of joggers—squint and you might think you’re in New York City.
That is to say, Paris doesn’t exactly represent the culture you’ll encounter in the rest of the country…
Let’s take a look at the downsides and the upsides of life outside Paris:
Beast: With the exception of grocery stores, many places are closed between noon and 2:00 p.m.—yes, a two-hour lunch break. Don't try to make any big buying decisions around that time. Lunch is sacrosanct.
Beauty: Between noon and 2:00 p.m. is a great time to do your grocery shopping. Or do as the French: Stop and eat!
Beast: Don't do your grocery shopping on Friday mornings, unless you want to practice your French with local retirees. They really do park their carts in the aisles, blocking the flow of other shoppers while chatting.
Beauty: Depending on the town, Friday or Saturday market shopping is a lot of fun... if you're not in a hurry. It's when the local farmers come into town to sell their farm-produced cheeses. It's when the fishmonger shouts out the day's best catch and buy. It's when the bakery counter has lots of samples and great deals. And, if you’re in the Basque region, it's when the local cherry growers dress up in their jaunty berets and give out handfuls of sweet cherries.
Beast: Retail stores are closed on Sundays. Really.
Beauty: Retail stores are closed on Sundays! I see this as a beauty, unless you've forgotten an essential ingredient and your new neighbors are coming over for lunch.
Sundays in the French countryside are different. You go into the center of town and enjoy the beauty and the history of the place, rather than the squish of retailing madness. The main road is closed to traffic, the cafés spill out onto the streets, people stroll through the parks. Sunday is for leisure, family, and friends.
Beast: Smoking. Despite the fact that smoking is banned in airports, railway stations, hospitals, schools, shops, offices, restaurants, and bars, it is still common to see people puffing everywhere.
Beauty: There isn't one...unless you're a smoker, in which case, welcome to the land of chic smokers.
Beast: French drivers. They use their signals oddly, they often beep after something has happened so no one knows who the beep is meant for, and they cut back into line on the freeway, after passing, as if there were a chase on.
Beauty: Compared with other European drivers, who seem to do everything but concentrate on driving, French drivers are on the ball and considerate. They let you out if you are waiting to enter traffic, and, as with everything else in life, they are generally courteous (Parisians excluded!).
Beast: French people are proud… and arrogant.
Beauty: Arrogance does not mean rudeness. The French are proud of their heritage… and, yes, some may think they’re better than you, especially if you’re not from Europe. But you’re more likely to be treated as you treat others… and you’ll get extra points for trying to speak the language.
Beast: Strikes and protests—no one does them better or bigger than the French. Every age and every background will participate. Some protestors tend to light cars, mopeds, and trashcans on fire… otherwise, though, it’s usually peaceful, sometimes with live music.
Beauty: Sometimes you get a day off work or school.
Beast: Learning French. It’s a very tricky language… unlike English, the pronunciation of a word must be near perfect to be understood. Then you have idioms, French slang (called argot), and other nuances that are not taught in French class or on Duolingo. One type of slang (verlan), actually flips syllables and words around: fou (fire) becomes ouf!
Beauty: French is a beautiful language to listen to… as the English art critic John Berger said, “Everything sounds better in French, even complaints. Especially complaints.”